As mentioned before, I don't have problems with V-Vocal and I always wondered why it caused such angst. I was using it on a vocal last night and it kept crashing Sonar, so now I see what people are talking about.
I'm not sure if this is the issue, but I always use V-Vocal as the last editing process on a vocal, so any takes have been consolidated into a single track. Last night, I tried to apply it to a clip in a take lane. As soon as I bounced all the takes together into a single track and deleted the unused take lanes, then V-Vocal went back to working just fine.
Another tip is that if you're working on a small clip, apply trimming.