Pianoteq and Ivory are the top choices IMHO.
If you like to tinker with the sound, Pianoteq is the one for you as just about every nuance of the sound can easily be changed.
It's also comparatively light on CPU and resources.
Ivory II is very demanding on resources especially when running full steam with all voices etc.
I like the Yamaha (included in the Grand Pianos package) and the Italian Grand.
With a good weighted controller, both play and sound very realistic.