OK, this was weird. I downloaded all of the expansion .PROX files and placed them in the Notion 6 | Sounds | Expansion directory, but all showed up grayed out. So I double-clicked on each expansion prox, but was told it was already installed. ???
Solution?
Notion needs to copy the PROX files to the Expansion folder itself. I moved all of the expansion files back to my download folder and double-clicked on each one in turn (if Notion isn't loaded, installing the first prox file will load it; leave it loaded). Notion copied the prox file to the Expansion folder and did whatever to let Notion know that the sounds were there. Now I have 100% of available Notion sounds actually available to me!
When doing this, I don't think it's then necessary to do a Help | Software Activation | Receive Licenses. Well, I didn't.
Looking forward to trying the new, very cool looking, drum notation entry feature!