If you want to monitor through Sonar, use can just engage the input echo on the track you're recording and monitor the master mix outputs. In Mix Control just set your headphone feeds to take their signal from your master bus in Sonar. If you aren't getting a signal at the master bus in Sonar, check your device settings in Sonar preferences and make sure the outputs you want on the interface are being recognized by Sonar. If they aren't showing up, make sure the routing is correct in Mix Control. Focusrite has presets for tracking, mixing, etc that should get you started, although depending on your needs you may have to change them.
I did have a strange problem that might have been related to the USB drivers for the Scarlett series, but I couldn't get a signal out of my master bus in Sonar. I uninstalled the Focusrite drivers and reinstalled, then it worked again.