I only have a slight delay when adding softsynths and the OP's computer is a lot newer than my old Quad2Core. I have a graphics card, but its old too.
What is your computer's rating on the Windows Experience Index? (Computer-Properties). Mine is 5.7 because of the graphics card, but my CPU and RAM are rated 7.1. That might shed some light on the bottleneck.
I'd also suggest you run a full antivirus/malware scan, memory test and disk scan. This sounds like a hardware issue to me and not a Sonar issue.
In Sonar, do you have Use Multiprocessing Engine and use MMCSS checked in Preferences - Audio - Playback and Recording? If not, you should. Do you have Read and Write Caching enabled in Sync and Caching? Those should also be checked.
EDIT: I did notice that when I add Dimension Pro, there is a slight delay (no white screen though) and it does say "Processing Tracks" in the Sonar display. Maybe that's just a funky way of saying "Loading" when its loading the softsynth. I turned off AutoSave and it still does it.