One thing I'd say to the OP that no one seems to have mentioned is that the difference between XP and windows 7 in terms of familiarity and learning curve is quite small to that between XP and windows 8.
Windows 8 is very different and there have been a lot of complaints at the way microsoft have seemingly abandoned desktop users and are more interested in touch screen and apps and tablet users. No longer is there a start button and no longer do you go straight to your desktop. The good news is that microsoft are apparently working on an updated version where you can have the start button and desktop as they were.
As for better performance windows 8 is proving to be better but only by a very small margin as suggested here
bench mark tests. This is the only benchmark test I've seen to date and others will probably give slightly different results depending on what software is being used.
Did I read that you could download a 30 day demo of windows 8.1 or did I dream that ?
If so then you might want to try it (if you have the time and patience) as you might not like the changes and wish you'd gone with windows 7. If you have, or will soon be investing i a touch screen monitor then that would be a better reason to go with windows 8 right now as X2 is being designed to utilise touch screen technology.
Steve