Try not clicking on the channel strip number and instead click somewhere else on the strip. This will bring it In Focus. That is what you want... not selected. However it looks like the strips are being brought in focus anyway in that vid. Try doing the same thing except click on the tracks in the track pane. This might be some kind of sync between Console and Track View setting. I forget if that is actually a thing but something in the back of my brain is saying that there is a difference between the two and possibly a setting that affects this behavior. I may have just dreamed that though.