its all good Dave. I think you may have read in to it wrong. but that's easy to do on the interwebs.
you've documented your comments. no need to take it any further. just enjoy yourself.
and oh yes...my best peace of advise I can give you (which im not always right :-)
is never, ever take anything serious in these comments
i'll go get a listen to your song in a bit.
peace man.
Chuck
EDIT: tried to check it out but it looks like you pulled all the links.
it also looks like you have been busy in the coffee house ruffling some feathers my friend.
live and let live, get a long with your mates here. this is a great place with great input from many musicians just like yourself who have valuable information to share.
PS- the smoking song was pretty good. but you made your profile private so I couldn't hear anything else.
im guessing some paranoia set in so you edited your privacy settings on soundclick.
remember... don't...take...anything...here...serious.
good luck man