I am in the same boat as the OP, mabye a bit more advanced as I am both an artist and an IT person.
Have spent a lot of time looking at plugins, both on the deals page, and magazine reviews from SOS, CM and FM.
After 3 months of studying them all, have come to the conclusion, that the ones in cakewalk are good enough, unless you like the look of another tool for workflow purposes or specific sounds/tasks, in which case you will know what u need.
I looked at waves stuff a lot, because everyone sort of talks it up, but think I would rather get the Fabfilter bundles (25% off until end of month at
http://www.fabfilter.com/shop/), or If I had money to burn, and needed to feed my ego, some UAD stuff with hardware to reduce processor load. But what I think I will end up doing is wait for a sale in Cakewalks store, get the caekwalk pack with the CA-2, and some of the Blue stuff, for no other reason than if I really need new toys to play with, I may as well spend my dough in a place where it might get invested back into updates for the DAW that I am using.
However, at moment, I think my money is much better spent on getting high quality instruments and studio hardware such as better quality monitor speakers and headphones so I can better hear when to apply my exist plugins, or even a hardware synth (I am very eager to see what the new Behringer is going to be like).
I am also following this thread, because I very nearly asked the very same question the OP did a few weeks ago, before deciding that I dont want to become a plugin collector :)