No problem, I get'cha. If you're into doing it for the experience, the fun, what ever cool. My suggestion then would be to put the most into your listening environment possible. Monitors, placement, room dimensions, bass trapping etc. . The place to start is with what the tunes will really sound like when otherwise not bumped or hyped by your room. Making adjustment to a tune in a bass heavy room will ultimately have you screwing it up and making it worse. I use Wavelab, a Manley Variable Mu Compressor, and the UAD-1. I bought the Manley because I really prefer the tactile feel and while listening for changes in sound. Especially if you're going to swing a filter back and forth, over and over looking for that sweet spot. The best bang for the buck so far no question has been the UAD. Wish I could affort the extreme pack. The Manley is for sale BTW if anyone's intersted.
I have to say, with all this stuff, I wish I could get it done better. I always get frustrated with the results. I know what I want but just can't seem to get there. I send a sample off to one of my regular mastering guys and bammo, it's done and clean as a whistle. That's why when there's a buck to be turned and a customer project that really has to put a smile on the face, I add the cost in and send it out for a quick-pass treatment.