what makes midi triggered drums sound realistic is the flaws, the human feel,(some notes are louder than others)
the tempo slightly drifts between 1/100's of the beat.
I did 4 videos on this, from drum triggering to editing to using a keyboard to hand tap.
the only thing better than a midi drum kit is a real kit.
but some of us don't have this luxury, either our kids are sleeping in the other room or we just don't have a kit.
this thread has gone array and a stray from the op original question.
think about it.
he wanted to know about tutorials on (making realistic-sounding performances for drums, bass, etc. using soft synths? )
myself and a couple other people have given the op useful resources, the rest sounds like an argument over digital vs audio.