I thought I gave you the answer, what other info are you looking for?
There's nothing more to it, you sound like you understand how it works and found out like all of us that it is flawed.
Try to record all further projects using some sort of click or better yet a basic drum track, if there are going to be drums in a final mix all recordings must start there.
Build yourself a collection of templates that have a few different drum patterns that work for your style of music,,, even if it's only a hi hat.
I have mine divided into midi tracks for each drum part, Kick, snare and hi hat. so I can then rebuild a full drum track latter on.