Yeah that's how we're doing it. The BUS is set up it just that it is the laptop that sends the bluetooth signal - that's why I didn't want to monitor through the Tascam. Unfortunately though it only supports 1 set of headphones so it's no good for a full band.
I have an alternative in the form of a USB radio transmitter but Sonar won't use it. I think the only alternative is to pull the monitor out of the Tascam and feed it into a 2nd laptop that has the FM transmitter on it... But I would imagine the latency will be dreadful - if its not though its definitely easier to simply take another laptop than it is to take an amp and monitor speakers. It also means I can stick to the ASIO drivers which seem more stable.