I am reluctant to play the victim - at least, not yet - because apparently lt was my duty to change the name on my home's deed when my wife died. Or something.
Yeah, I know. Who's thinking about stuff like that after a death in the family? I was more concerned with what I was going to do with my life, how to console my family, how to pay her medical bills, how to keep my sanity and not fall into a spiral of depression. Not "oh, I'd better get down to the courthouse".
And when she was diagnosed with cancer, my first thought was not that I need to draw up and notarize a Power of Attorney. It wasn't my second, third or fourth thought, either. If I thought about legal issues at all, it was to assume that I didn't need any special authority to manage her/our affairs.
There were no issues with changing names on bank accounts. Only on junk mail and spam lists, which apparently are forever. I can count on them to remind me of my loss every stinkin' day. Heck, I'm still getting solicitations to save the whales addressed to my dad, who died in 2002.
On a positive note, I had bacon for breakfast yesterday, cooked for me by my grandson. I haven't had bacon in years.