sharke

Looks like the criminals have won, at least in some quarters anyway.
I can't speak for Bitflipper, but I would guess that with everything he's been through the last thing he needs to hear is someone telling him that he's putting his family in harms way by moving them in.
He got burgled for chrissakes, not home invaded and held hostage. You cannot live the rest of your life in fear because your house got broken into.
They do win, mostly. Crime pays, unfortunately, in the business of theft. No one sees property as work and time out of your life, so your property is merely "stuff" and is dismissed. It is not "stuff" - it is labor, time, energy, sacrifice - we don't get stuff for free, rather we earn and trade our earnings for these things. It is an indirect form of slavery to take someone's belongings - you've stolen their labor and time.
Insurance companies don't make up for all that you've lost - so you always lose time and energy out of your life, never to be returned. That time you spent working and saving? Gone. To someone else's benefit, against your will.
And you're so right, you have to get over the fear. It's creepy being in your house when people have broken in and invaded it. I never realized how that would feel until it happened. And then all the paranoia that goes with it.