Dave - I suspect this thread really wasn't a serious request for parenting advice as I think you probably meant it as tongue in cheek, especially since you already have done the best thing possible for encouragement but not "going overboard" one way or the other.
I just want to say however, that if someone were really looking for advice on anything that one might really want to consider "the source." some people give advice where they have absolutely no experience.
and also remember that we're all children here anyway.