My rule of thumb is to look at the console view.
Keep the tracks out of the red.
Keep the master out of the red.
If they "bump" the red, no need to sweat it.... you don't want them constantly bumping the red.
Adjust the mix as needed to keep everything running in the black. You can ALWAYS turn the volume up in the mastering/polishing stage, but, it is critical to get a clean mix first and foremost.