I'm a big fan of Session Drummer 3. Paired with the Step Sequencer, it's very powerful. You can drag your own samples in to Session Drummer and create your own custom kits. SD3 is a 12 track/output sampler so you can route up to 12 drums/samples to individual audio outputs (these show up as tracks in Sonar), and add effects to each individual output.
Not sure how all that works with EZ Drummer. I've never used it.
Another thing to keep in mind is, I checked EZ Drummers site, and they said you have to have Version 8 or higher to work with Sonar X2. You may want to check which version you have.
There is a 3 part tutorial for using Session Drummer 3 on Youtube. Do a search for "sonar master class drum production". The difference between these tutorials that were done for Sonar 8.5 and what you will see in X2 is, there are Track Templates in X2 that are already set up so you don't have to manually create the audio outputs like they show in the video ... but it's still good to know how to do it.