Good to see you making headway.
The administrator privileges thing is coming from W7.
In Windows Explorer, go to the Sample Tank folder and right click on the executable file(SampleTank2.5.exe)
Select Run as Administrator.
There's nothing wrong with WDM. If the drivers are well written, they can be as good or better than ASIO.
One may work better than the other, depending on system configuration.
Since WDM seems to be working well on yours, run with it.
Super low latency is good for recording audio, particularly vocal tracks, but as you've noticed, can be problematic with soft synths. Synths need a little headroom. 5-9ms is a good range. You will not hear or feel a difference, and it gives the CPU the time it needs to do its work.
Carry on, and have fun.