Thanks for the info. This is strange indeed.
I've noticed that if I wait for a bit, Sonar doesn't go into a full crash. The ram goes wild for a bit, I hit play, it freezes but then goes normal after maybe 10 seconds. It doesn't do this with another driver selected, just asio.
I had tested this on my sons machine and it was fine but he doesn't have a pro sound card so asio wouldn't even be available. If there was some way I could get the asio drivers turned on in his machine I might be able to see if the problem occurs. If it doesn't, I would know if there's something wacky on my machine or if this is a true bug.
It's like it's going into some loop when you try to enable a synth, the ram goes from 4% up to 35%, it shows an audio drop out message, I click ok, sonar freezes, I hit play, wait about 10 seconds, then everything goes back to normal. In X1 it just instantly turns on or off.
I must not give up! (sob...sob)