For the record and later forum searches:
jBridge installation fixed my problems with crashes due to 32 bit soft synths. 15€ cure for serious headache!
I use it now for all of the IK soft synths, but failed to apply in general i.e. to all of my remaining 32 bit tools.
The following synth / FX had to stay with BitBridge (but all now set to load into different bitbridge servers which seems to help):
VC64 does not work with jBridge (error message).
Fantom and ARX module behave strange and get stuck when jBridged.
Cakewalk Sound Centre gives error at shut-down.
Amped SVX didn't output any sound when jBridged.
x-ray works with jBridge although you need to tick the force refresh GUI option for some plug-in otherwise GUI gets empty ...