TraceyStudios
I think I am concerned that I have insulted the pros that offer their help. And that was really not my intention. I made the post and the got defensive or offensive when folks replied. I should have asked the question and accepted the answer. What was I thinking, Like somehow if I argued it, it would change the reality? obviously no. I feel I screwed up a good opportunity to learn from those who offer some unique help. After reading my post, one politely declined their services to me. Big reality check for me. That in itself is a important lesson I have learned.
Its funny you should think this way when I was thinking "what a good thread". At first I wasn't sure what you were asking and as it became clearer I think all of us understood not only what was being asked but the frustration you were going through. I thought you did a fine job of restraining yourself and trying to see the other point of view.
You did just fine as far as I am concerned. I don't believe anyone would have taken the time to answer you if you had been unreasonable or unwilling to hear the other side.
There is simply nothing to worry about or think that you did anything wrong. All you really did was start a great thread that I believe will be useful to many others.