sarta53, you are not going to find a legal copy of SONAR 3. Your best bet is to grab that 8.5 you found on eBay pronto, because legal pre-X1 versions are getting very hard to find.
The learning curve won't be too bad at all and 8.5 should open all your S3 projects. You might lose a couple of the bundled effects, although the main ones (e.g. Sontius suite) will still be there and some of the others can be downloaded from CW.