Kev and Kalle are on the money.
Your CPU is a bigger factor than RAM, especially with 3 or 4 Gb available.
Launch Task Manager. It gives you a more accurate view of CPU activity than the CPU meter in SHS6.
Even on my modest system, I am able to load a surprising number of VSTs.
As noted, this will vary depending on which VSTis I am using.
I like to track softsynths live, so low latency is important at the recording stage. I'll typically have two or three synths active.
As you add more synths, the CPU will have a harder time keeping up with the load, and you may start to hear some pops and crackles. Temporarily freeze the synths you are not working with.
Once you have your tracks recorded, you can increase the latency, and unfreeze all of your synths.
As an example,
Khyber Pass9 has 11 synths, plus several EQs, reverbs, and Boost 11.
At 9ms, this would have guaranteed a dropout, but at 200ms, it was smooth sailing.
Just keep an eye on those meters, and use good management techniques.
SHS6 is a strong performer under XP, and the program itself should not be a limiting factor.