I suppose this post has no real solution, but I am pondering out loud. Doesn't it just kill you to have spent huge sums on your monitors, gear, soundcard, mixer, instruments room, etc.; plus years building up your recording and mixing skills, only in order to send out an mp3 of your latest masterpiece to a pack of friends and family who don't own a single hi-fi between them?
I recently had the honor of having one of my Sonor-creations played on NATIONAL radio (takes a bow ;). Before the broadcast, I sent a high quality mp3 to my entire circle. In the accompanying email, I joked something like "don't even bother playing this (or any other) music over LAPTOP speakers or earbuds, or Jesus kills ten bunny rabbits".
(My sister, who doesn't have my non-literal sense of humor, still hasn't played it....)
Seriously, though, of my non-Sonar peeps, almost NONE of them have ANY way of playing music other than Laptop speakers (pukes) or earbuds. Really? Really?
For those of you who obsess over room treatments and spend huge amounts of time and money getting mixes as perfect as you can, don't you want to go a bit nuts when you stop to think that almost no one will be hearing your creations on anything costing over ten cents? Honestly, almost NO ONE in my circle of friends has even so much as a boom-box quality stereo these days. It is pathetic! And here we stress & struggle for the "nth" degree of audio quality (that no one can hear.)
Not looking for a solution; just thought I would open a discussion,
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