AC/DC use a lot less gain than perhaps you may think. The sound is more clean with a light amp crunch than "distorted".
Every note and chord is very defined and audible, and this, in my opinion is a lot of "the trick" to get this kind of sound on record.
you can make guitars sound huge and punchy when you keep the gain down.
Also, avoid playing the same parts too many times. It does work in some genre, to create a "wall of sound", but in the style you specified, it is more important to hear / feel the pick attack, which dissapears when too many guitars are recorded playing similar parts.
I would also say:
don't try too much to compare how your amp sounds in the room compare to plugins.
its not how its meant to be compared.
the amp sims reproduce the sound of guitars recorded from an amp and played back through your speakers. So, if you want to compare with your amp, you need to mic up your amp, record it and then play it back through your speakers and see how that compare with the amp sims you have.
you can then decide which sounds best.
Finally, don't put too much bass on your recorded guitars as they will clash with the rest of the bottom end of your track. They will sound better and warmer on their own, but once in the mix, it will sound muddy.
then only some light EQ / comp should be required to make them seat in the mix.
I hope it helps and you get the sound you want.
I know "chasing tone" is a never ending headache for guitarists. I'm still chasing..