I'll check the Steven slate, yea i want a drum kit that sound great right out of the " box " with minimal tweaking that sit right in the mix, more or less. i really don't need all the tweaking stuff, Well at least some simple tweaks, like overhead / room control / Customizing the kit's. What i would like is good soft open sounding kit's with loads of great and a big variety of grooves to choose from. All suggestions here is great, BFD 2 / Superior Drummer / Steven Slate 4 seems they all is great software, gonna be hard to decide :), Again thanks for all the info.

If you already have EZDrummer, I highly recommend getting an expansion kit.  The Nashville is very good (and not just for country).  I also like the Classic and Claustrophobic a lot.  The new Rock Solid sounds tasty, but I've not got it yet.  If you don't have EZDrummer, then it's worth the investment.
 
Don't judge EZ by the stock kit, the EZX are far superior.  I can't remember the last time I used the kit that comes with it.
 
They sound great out of the box, and come with some fantastic grooves and fills played by good drummers.  I don't tend to use the loops as I play drums, but they are very good and varied.  I genuinely think it will fit your needs perfectly.