I think this was my 5th time out in 2016.
3 times at Cirque du Soleil, 1 at a goth night because our good friend was DJ'ing and we hadn't seen him in ages, and Prince last night.
If not to accompany my wife, I would probably not have went to any of these.
Booze is 5 times too expensive, music is 5 times too loud (and I get to really chose neither) and there's at least 50 times as many people as I care to see. Because I have a very low and soft voice, conversation over loud music demands a lot of energy. And I have alienated myself by spending all my free time studying and reading - it just feels awkward to try and make small talk.
I just spend hours wishing I was here with a good bottle of my favorite wine, my Schubert cd's and my books.
At least until I'm drunk enough so that my inner Woody Allen steps down and my inner Ozzy comes out.
Plus I don't dance. In all honesty, the only reason I went to bars when I was younger was to meet girls. The music and the booze is always much better at home, and there's no guy standing in the corner of the bathroom and handing you paper towels, expecting a tip.