Your latency may be too low.
In response to your question about attitude I would point out that often when a post is made and is asking for help this forum often responds quickly. Its somewhat frustrating to try to answer a poster when they don't show up.
In future staying around to see what response you get will prove helpful both to you and the forum. Or one can subscribe to a thread and get updates on it when one comes in.
Here I saw no attitude from the various posters just a lot of wondering.