OK, guys, here is the drum map for EZDrummer.
http://www.vettaville.com/ezdrummer_midi_keyboard_layout.htm 1-It has all the GM MIDI notes but adds others. 2-The cymbal I was trying to use is on the map as muted/choked, so that explains it.
I now have Std, Nashville, and Vintage kits and, with the Session Drummer 3 kits I have bought and the various odd and ends (like Fab Four, outboard synths, etc.) I think I am good for drums since I usually tend towards organic sounds.
I actually like the Vintage kit best—but the Nashville kit has more. Both are good for any kind of pop, country, etc. despite their names.
One weird thing: the Toontrack ad for Vintage drums says "Sound like Ringo" but I don't see any Beatles grooves in the MIDI files. Not a problem: I don't need them and could create them if required, but that is odd. You'd think they throw in Ticket to Ride, She Loves You, or some other classic just for fun.

Maybe there are in there under sneaky names and I just didn't find them.
The mix for this song I wrote is a LONG WAY from being finished, but in the chorus you can hear the Ringo inspiration. Say what you will about my old pal Ringo (and risk my wrath), but you must admit he is super-creative.
http://soundcloud.com/bill-hartmann/15-minutes-of-fame To be clear, this is Session Drummer 3 but I may change out the sounds before it is a record.