kevo, Thanks for all the help, bro. I will watch the videos and also see if the NI forum--not nearly as responsive as this one!--has any ideas.
I can work around with different instances, if needed, but want to figure this out before I sink major dollars into the Abbey Road drum collection.
I am one of those people who is never satisfied with the kick, bass, and snare (though snare is less of a problem). I probably spend more time on the kick drum and bass guitar selection, EQ, and mix than on everything else combined! And, as you know, nothing screws up a mix faster than getting those wrong.
On thing I do like in Kontakt: For the free drums, anyway, there is an attack control—don't know if that is in the Abbey Road set. I have another thread on this forum about making the kick push instead of hit, and the smallest possible movement on the kick drum attack knob in Kontakt works wonders. The kick still has an attack but it is not hard. I like a good thump without sounding like the speakers are clicking or popping.