The FireFace units are among the BEST at their price range. Then again, 100% customer satisfaction doesn't exist with any product. Hope the OP gets his issue sorted either with a new FF800 or a new interface.
Agreed...
If the FF is burning up motherboards, it needs to be replaced.
That's certainly not common/expected behavior.
I understand the OP's frustration...
Having bought a good unit, IMO he needs to simply get a "good" unit connected to a good FW controller.
RME needs to swap it out.
@OP, Forget trying to trouble-shoot with Dell.
That's like going to a Urologist for a headache.

You'll get better support here.
Once you have a properly functioning RME unit, you'll be glad you stuck with it.
There are numerous other "good" options... but none are better that what you have (as long as it's functioning properly).