My problem with a lot of the EDM scene is that it has become way too compartmentalized and genre-driven. The kids are exceedingly anal about their genre definitions and I've seen loads of really heated arguments and debate on YouTube and music forums about whether such and such an artist is one incredibly specific sub-sub-genre or another, and it comes down to such inanities as whether the bpm of a track qualifies it for sub-sub-genre A or sub-sub-genre B.
So then they have these strict song structure definitions and the terminology that goes along with it, and from the questions I see them ask on EDM production forums I gather they're very particular about what part goes where, and how you program this section, and how you program that section. It really is a bit like painting by numbers in some respects. Everything is punched in and automated and snapped together like lego and the question is asked: "is this right?" instead of "does this sound good?"
I wouldn't mind any of this if the result was great music (and believe me, I LOVE a bit of great electronic music), but sometimes I will sift through hundreds of new releases on Spotify and sites like Beatport and I really can't tell one producer from another. Same structures, same synth sounds, same drums, same everything.
The temptation is to think "you old fart, you just don't like anything new" but that's really not the case - when I hear a young producer who stands out, whose music has soul and character, I go nuts for it. The trouble is that I've only managed to find a handful of these over the last few years. The rest of it is just generic tosh. Sometimes I will add some of it to a playlist to see if it manages to take root in my head, thinking that maybe once I've given it a few listens I'll hear some qualities in it that I didn't catch first time around, but no, it doesn't happen
I think a lot of it has to do with the modern DAW and how kids are making music these days. Back in the day there was far more emphasis on live performance of parts, getting ideas down to audio as quickly as possible, capturing a moment. Nowadays that emphasis seems to have shifted toward programming the perfect parts and tweaking them ad infinitum until they're "correct." You lose a lot of the musical spontaneity like this. But like I said, there are some young producers who really stand out and what I hear in their music is that spontaneity, the creative spark, the musical soul. It's not just older farts like me, I've heard younger people ask things like "why does 90's house music seem more "alive" than today's house music?