X2 is much improved in the gapping department when manipulating screen elements.
Even in large projects similar in size to yours.
After bad experience with X1 till X1C was released I'm now finding X2 to be the most stable and smooth running first release version ever. I have Cakewalk experience that goes back more than 15 years.
I have all the other major DAWS as well and SONAR is at the very least, as stable as any other.
As for things being greyed out in various previous demos - it is consistent that SONAR's demo versions have disabled functions. As SONAR is a non-destructive editor, there will be many functions not accesible during playback