I use Voxengo TapeBuss a LOT. Not really for making things sound like tape, but it has this Hi-Freq control that adds some sweet sweet sizzle to the material without being gross about it.
I use it on bass guitar buss on almost every single project. It adds grind and loveliness without harshness (if used with some sort of moderation). It helps the notes come alive in a way that I love.
I used to use the Cakewalk Tapesim a lot, but haven't since I got the Voxengo plug.