Danny Danzi
Bub: I kept it generic because I can feel where Mike is coming from and wanted to share my own experience without naming names. The reason for that...we really don't have to name names do we? We all pretty much know who causes trouble around here ALL the time. It's the same ones all the time.
Yeah, but on the other hand, I could be viewed in the same light from John, John T, FBB's point of view, and for all I know, you're including me in that from your point of view. That's the problem with making things too generic. I lock horns with people all the time but I can honestly say I've never attacked anyone that I can remember. Sometimes people will take a joke the wrong way and get mad at me, but I've never, that I can recall, arbitrarily attacked someone.
I do go out of my way to explain my point of view some times and I think that's taken as being argumentative. In my eyes it's not, but I can see how it comes off that way, especially when I quote facts and it proves someone wrong. Most people don't like being told they are wrong, ya know what I mean?
Also, though I respect where you were coming from, I don't think it was quite fair to do an analysis on my character for speaking my mind or mention what *I* may need to do. Yes I know my flaws and how serious I take things...but that would be like me telling you "well, you really need to alter the way you handle yourself on the forum". I'd be out of line in telling you that because you have your own beliefs as to how you feel you should act, know what I mean?
I was being sincere. I really do think you take it way too seriously and I was just trying to get you to maybe rethink things here a little. But then again, it's not my place to do that so I do apologize. Sometimes I say things to you because I know you are from NJ and I am too ... and in my mind there's a bond and I feel more comfortable saying things to you than I do other people and probably say things I shouldn't, because in reality we really don't know each other ...
Personally, I really need to stop spending so much time here. You can only make your point so much, and state your dissatisfaction with X1 for so long before you actually do become an **** about it. LOL! It's not my responsibility to be the 'truth' police here ...
I do like helping people and I feel like I've contributed more good than bad ... but if everyone else's perception is more bad than good ... then I've failed.
Well, anyway. I had a lot more typed but just deleted it. No need to say anymore.