Ben- personally I strongly recommend that you spend the $30 and get the DVD's coming as soon as they are available. I know you may think it's good money after bad - but it's a small investment to get X2 up and running.
Meanwhile, run X1 and take a deep breath and wait for the dust to settle -
I know it's frustrating.
If it's any consolation - X2 is extremely solid here. A great release. I have the world's slowest "broadband" connection (LOL) and downloading the files was an experience, but I knew what i was in for, and just decided to be patient - it took me a couple of days but what the heck....
X2'll be ready to go when you are ready to give it another try -