Well....what can anyone say without hearing the songs???
Have you used same type of instrument sounds etc. so it is possible to make them sound alike?
How alike should they be and how different are they now?? If you've used distortion on bass on one track and none on the other, they
obviously sound different.
Using a frequency analyser and bringing the frequency curves of the songs closer to eachother could be one thing to try.
You might take some fundamental instruments, like drums, bass and/or rhytm guitars closer to eachother by simply copying the settings.