Chuck, this is not possible.
Only one audio driver can be running in Sonar and how would on board sound find it's way to an interface anyhow.
The OP is just trying to do what we all know will result in hearing the RTL delay of the system.
Monitoring the back end of a DAW system will always result in some latency and don't believe the manufactures specs. Use your ears and will you hear something.
The OP mentions 2-3 seconds,, I think they meant to say ms.
Jim R wrote this out once in a very good way to make it understood, I'll attempt the same but might not be as accurate.
Round trip Latency is going to happen even with the very best interface. for the audio to get from the input back to the output it is processed multiple times, each process depending on it's quality and coding involved will add it's little bit of latency to make the sum total.
First the A/D convertor.
Then the USB or Firewire system coming in
The CPU
Then the audio driver talking to the DAW ( all DAW's perform the same people, don't blame the DAW)
Any plug ins that add latency canalso be added, but this is one thing you can remove easily.
Then the USB or Firewire going out
Then the D/A convertor to your monitoring system.
Note: many under $500 interface use what is called a hidden Buffer which adds more latency that was reported.
Solutions for those wishing to avoid hearing this are:
Use lower buffer settings.
Using a higher sample rate
A some point this will need a very good System to support the lower buffers. Many systems using so so audio drivers and lower CPU horsepower will drop out.
There are hardware solutions like above mentioned buy an interface with built in DSP and effects
Or use a hardware mixer with effexts for monitoring ( what I do )
A trick I've used to hear reverb from Sonar is to turn the track your recordings fader down or off.
Insert an effects send to a reverb buss. Set it pre fader. Crank it up and you will hear the wet reverb now in the DAW output but you won't hear very much of the vocal track with it's delay. In a way the little bit of delay in the reveb buss become the effect.