The dropouts could be caused by memory exhaustion. Try turning off the 64-bit option in the export dialog. That will greatly reduce the amount of memory used during exporting.
I don't believe there is any difference in memory usage between slow and fast bounces. The biggest difference is that fast bounces don't care about CPU load or audio buffer size. It just slows down if necessary, which is why a "fast" bounce can sometimes actually be slower than a "slow" bounce, a phenomenon I'd witnessed many times on my old CPU-challenged machine. (
Audible bounces are another matter, and much more prone to "dropouts" due to the added overhead of writing to disk whilst filling audio buffers.)