If I were a perfectionist I would have to just quit. I finally figured out, about 15 years ago, that I can only play my guitar like me. When that happened I got a lot better. With recording, if I can't get it there I get help. Life is short... be happy.
Most of my time recording is spent in frustration just trying to get things to do what they are supposed to do. I am a midiot, started too late I think but it will not beat me.
I guess my goal is perfection but then I try to remember that some of the best recordings were made using equipment in ways it wasn't intended to be used or with very minimal equipment... like one mic. Early Motown was recorded in Berry Gordy's dirt floor basement. Deke Dickerson relates a story in the new TapeOP magazine of a recording done in the 50s with one broad field mic on a boom above the band. They would swing it around over anyone who had a solo, he said it sounds great and adds a natural compression from being moved over one artist.
The Beatles recorded Sgt. Peppers on a 4-track tape machine (they did have some good help).
I think we get in the weeds with "stuff" and forget that some of the best music ever is FAR from perfect, rather it is spontaneous and magic.
That said... I am neither. However, it is fun being a hack!
J