Hi,
I had an old friend, psychic that was NY Jewish and Sydney, Australian, and at the same time, I already had a massive collection of music, and he enjoyed the things that I played, and some that he thought were over blown (like Stivell's Celtic Symphony), and some that were awesome (Gismonti's No Caipira) and he said that the only thing I needed was 30 days in the hole with a synthesizer!
It never happened, unfortunately, and my love for music and living and dying with it in listening, did not translate into learning, and I was not able to pursue it until a couple of years later I saw a Bass Guitar and I wanted it (the cherry red EB-0 with the pegs backwards), but trying to learn it more and more proved tougher, and when I lived in a house with various musicians one of them got a nice little Korg, but the sounds and play did not click or turn me on. 35 years later I still have not gone to music full time, but I will as soon as work gets cut in half, or I retire, depending on my health. I'm hoping for half time/part time with no benefits.
All in all, considering how much music I live through and with, it is astonishing that I never learned more ... but a lot of it had to do with Portugal to Brazil at 9 years old, and parents not being able to afford anything, until we came to America, and by that time, at 15/16, other music's had taken up my mind, and learning music was not a primary desire or concern. But listening to all the new things was ... massive! And my first real chance to learn and grow!