Thanks to all you guys (or gals) who tried to help. Your consideration is greatly appreciated.
I still have a lot to learn, but generally if I can get pointed in the right direction, I can get going. Unfortunately, I'm not familiar with a lot of the terms used in recording software, which has made getting help difficult for everyone.
I'm going to get the book that was recommended. I am going to learn to use the software, and I'm going to learn to use it well. I had given up, but then I made a commitment to do some recording. Everyone I talked to told me to get GarageBand, but I wanted to give Sonar another shot. I think I'm on the right track now.