I was never a Nirvana fan, either. I pretty much ignored the whole grunge phenomenon at the time.
But here in Seattle, Cobain's death was a local news story you couldn't
not listen to. There were hourly updates for days afterward. When the house was sold, that was a news item, too. When the neighbors complained about fans clogging the street, that made the evening news. Every wacky episode by Courtney got reported. Incredibly, her dreadful band got more gigs.
It was only after his death that I came to appreciate that Kurt was very much the anti-rock star. He could have afforded a Southern California cliffside showplace, but he lived in a humble home on Lake Washington. He dressed like a bum, didn't even have a climate-controlled warehouse for his guitars like most successful rock stars. His only nod to stardom was the obligatory drug problem.
Courtney is quite the opposite. Stays in the nicest hotels, spends a fortune on clothes, and has an unrealistically high opinion of herself. A thoroughly unlikable person, not someone you'd want for a neighbor or a bandmate. The possibility that she may have been complicit in murder and got away with it offends me the same way as OJ Simpson's smirking acquittal.