I have never personally met Phil Collins, so I can't honestly say what kind of a person he is. Nor do I personally know any of these forum members, but as a human I do form an impression of what you are about by what you write. With experience I know that my impressions may only be partially right.
In honesty, I can regrettably remember more than one time that I came across as being insincere and even pompous.
I have to admit that Phil Collins has accomplished a lot in his career. I do enjoy some of his older tracks now and again.
Life is a journey, hopefully we all learn to get along.
I wish all of you the best
Jesse