I usually use the green Tortex M3, which is pretty stiff.
For acoustic strumming stuff I´ve found that a really soft pick like the Tortex 0.5 mm. works well - almost like a natural compressor.
My son, who´s kind of a Django Reinhart-addict, made a bunch of his own picks from birch & pine, triangular, really thick & about 2" from corner to corner - took a while to get control over, but sounds pretty good - especially in his hands, in mine - not so good.