Yeah, I used to think the same thing: I don't want to kill the "vibe" man. Well, I have come to some realizations since then...
Fixing drum timing issues does not kill the vibe, but rather saves it.
There is still a very human feel (it was still performed by a human.) The natural fluctuation of velocities, etc...
When a kick and snare strike at the same but are slightly off (maybe the kick comes in 10ms before the snare) you cannot quantize independent of each other. In this case, you would need to choose one to quantize and let the other live how it lives. All thing have to be moved together to maintain phase alignment and bleed cohesion. So in the se cases you still maintain %100 of the human performance.
The old attitude I had was espoused from laziness and from drummers that were afraid they would be exposed if having to learn to play to a click. So everyone would use the blanket excuse of "not killing the human vide" as a way of continuing to hide from all that.
The truth is that a pro-level musician needs to quit hiding from that and face it. Staying on time is paramount in high-quality productions, period. The is nothing for it. Convince you clients to face reality. They will be better musicians for it. And your productions will be more pro and better sounding.
As engineers, we need to quit being lazy and face it too. Just accept it and get it done. You will be happy you did and more bands will want to record with you. That = more clients and more money.
Taking time with pre-production, giving the drummer demo tracks to practice to etc... will help him/her prepare so when they come to track, they won't be a deer in the headlights.
Take time to track in detail, not letting things slip by. Getting it as close as possible in tracking will save you headaches later.