Hi Tropical Cowboy,
The error message you mentioned will pop up if you are running a 32-bit DXi in 64-bit SONAR. To get around this, you can open SONAR with Admin privileges by right-clicking on SONAR's icon and selecting "Run As Administrator"
I am also curious as to why the VST version is not showing up. Give the following a try: In SONAR, go to Utilities > Cakewalk Plug-in Manager. Check to see if Dimension Pro is appearing under the 'VST Instruments' section. If it is not, select 'VST Audio Effects' and check to see if Dimension Pro is listed in there. If it is, single-click on Dimension Pro and then click on 'Plug-in Properties'. In this Window, make sure 'Configure as Synth' is applied and click OK.
If neither of these suggestions seem to do the trick, let me know and we can take it from there.