Mesh
Mosh, there's a big difference between "stroking each other's ego" and being happy for someone's positive experience.
I realized a long time ago that the world didn't revolve around me, so I just let go my ego. If this was an amateur/noob/inexperienced audio forum, I may very well get my ego mojo back. 
Man must know his limitations.
D. Harry
One of the things I have loved the most in my life, was photographing "friends", and not stars ... and spending time with them. I didn't need to "drop names" of the many bands I have done some photos with for them, since I never have sold any of my pictures, though GONG did sell the 8x10's of the band that I took in 1995 at Berbatti's here in Portland. They used that picture for a couple of tours and posters. I have met, since I was a child so many literary dignitaries, that saying anything here is crazy, and people thinking I'm just pulling their noses or ears! It's not important, but it's hard to not "understand" and "see" what some of them were about ... because their comments and lines and playing with the children, is really no different than their work ... it's the same person!
I love it when someone gets the fun and the goods in these situations, and I wanted to add to it as an example that things could also get better, but they can also go downhill so fast that it is sad, and some folks never recover from it. I quit at the "top" because of the vanity involved, and that was that. What I wanted to do was not about ... let's get stoned ... so to speak ... or let's have a drink!
I would, and have, forever, tried to guide everyone to theater, film, music and the arts ... but ... it didn't show here! Sorry to be me!