Hi,
I'm not sure that you are looking at music and its human factor.
The music "notation" was divised wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy after the music itself, which should tell you that most music notation is an "approximation", and not necessarily the exact thing, and it is especially bad, when the interpretations by individuals enter into the fray of the music, which can be done live, but would not be necessarily accurate on paper at all.
Listen to an opera, by different conductors, or singer even, and check out the major differences in them, not only in interpretation, but also in details.
I've always thought, and I am not a student of "notes or chords" (or care to be, ever!), that music is about the "person" and not the notes and chords. TODAY, this is very visible with all the computer stuff that can tell you this note and that note by its sound and vibration (whatevahhh!!) and in the end, all it is doing is taking away the human feeling and desire and love for the piece of music. BUT, a lot of the music behind the person is getting hidden, also!
To me, and I am not a musician, just a lover of music (!), this is important, and it doesn't matter to me if Jon Mc is playing Cm789d or Keith is playing 17 notes on the keys! It's the feeling and flow before it and after it that matters, not just one note or a set of notes, although in this day and age, we use that as an "identifier" for copyright garbanzos and farts!
I, personally, and I AM trying to learn an instrument, do not see an issue here, but the more complicated staff should tell you that there is an interpretation with the note extensions, and you can go listen to the song and compare the two. And then you can learn the single notes and realize that the bending and stretching of the notes is the real issue. With that said, someone will comppose somthing on paper with all the extensions and bends and what not, and of course, most musicians will fail to "get it" and interpret it "correctly". It is much harder to interpret an individual feeling, and not likely to show on a piece of paper that well!!!! Remember that!
One other thing ... when I saw Stevie Ray Vaughn, I found out something rather interesting ... the bass player, was a fun, nice goon, and he accidentally got his bass tuned a half down ... and Stevie gave him a look, smiled ... and they had a new song! THAT is musicianship and then some! But it should tell you that sometimes ... things happen, and the best musicians ADAPT ... !!!